A woman has sparked a lengthy debate online after she revealed her tests on guys she dates to determine whether they are able to ‘provide and protect’ her or not.
Gabby, who goes under the username @respectfullygabby on TikTok, said in her video that her first goal is to see if the guy offers to pay for their first date.
“Let’s stop this conversation and the back and forth, 50/50 bullsh**t, first date; he needs to be paying 100 per cent,” she expressed.
Gabby said that if they do not pay the full bill, she would not see the guy ever again.
Another test is seeing if men care about her ‘safety.’
She remembered a time when she booked an Uber to return home after having a couple of drinks with a man at a bar. The guy’s Uber arrived first but instead of leaving, he waited with her until hers arrived.
“If you don’t care about my safety and making sure I get into my Uber safely, you’re done. This man failed my protection test, and he never heard from me again.
“Men, you need to be walking her to her car, to her Uber, to wherever to make sure she gets home safely.”
For her third test, she would say she’s ‘cold’ to see if her date would lend his jacket to keep her warm.
“I wanna see if you will give me the shirt off your back, and if you don’t, you’re dead to me,” she said.
Her video has gained hundreds of comment and over 200,000 likes from people who agreed with her tests, with one person writing: “If a guy doesn’t make sure I get home safely after our date, I won’t go out with him again, no matter how good the date was.”
Another said: “The girls who get it, GET IT.”
A third added: “He needs to pay for every date!! I’ve never paid in my entire life.”
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