A woman has begged the internet for advice after her marriage hit the rocks following the stillbirth of her son.
The young lady in question revealed on Reddit that her husband had been blaming her for the stillbirth of their first son even since the tragedy took place.
Though the couple eventually reconciled, the rift between them only grew bigger when they learned they were expecting triplets.
According to the 27-year-old, her husband became furious when she told him that they were expecting three children – all girls.
“About five months ago I found out I’m pregnant again, and then found out soon after that we’re having triplets. My husband and I were over the moon and he was the most doting and loving husband. Since we had always said we wanted 2-3 children we agreed we wouldn’t try for any more children after this,” she wrote.
“The baby shower went wonderfully with my parents, in-laws, my brother and his husband and their daughter, and tons of friends and extended family. It was like a dream come true and I was so excited for the gender reveal. I don’t care what the gender of our babies was I just wanted healthy little babies, but my husband was clearly excited for potentially three sons.
“When the time came me, my husband, and my brother all shot a confetti cannon and all three shot out pink confetti.point 210 |
I was so excited and so was my brother but my husband screamed at the top of his lungs and hit the table in front of us, hitting it so hard that it actually broke.point 129 | He screamed at me that I was supposed to give him at least one son because I killed his first one.point 207 |
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The shocked mom-to-be went on to say that her husband had not only blamed her for the stillbirth of their son but also refused to talk to her or sleep with her ever since the baby shower.
The man allegedly also spat at his wife and told her that he would provide for their children but never be a part of their lives because he wanted sons.
Upset and shocked by her husband’s actions, the woman has since revealed her plans to divorce the man because she didn’t want her daughters to grow up in an “unloving household.”
Her mother and mother-in-law, however, urged her to reconsider saying she couldn’t leave her husband just because he wanted sons.
After asking Reddit for advice, the woman was inundated with words of support and advice.
“First stop sharing your feelings on this and your plans on this with your MIL and mother!! They made you feel like you are wrong!! This guy says he isn’t going to care for them right! He blamed you for a stillborn baby and has spat on you!! You can’t stay with this guy!” someone wrote.
Another said: “You’re not divorcing him because he wants a son, you’re divorcing him because he has said some truly unforgivable things. I’m so sorry about your son – please know it wasn’t your fault. Your husband is truly vile to say what he did and that alone is grounds to end your marriage.”
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