A frustrated woman has shared how her partner asked her to leave his birthday party even though she was the one who organized and paid for everything.
The woman took to Reddit and explained that she wanted her boyfriend to enjoy his big day so he invited all of his friends.
But when they wanted to discuss something ‘confidential,’ her boyfriend suddenly asked her to leave and go home.
“I’d arranged for the party and paid for everything,” the woman wrote on Reddit. “It wasn’t a surprise since the party was held at a restaurant, and he needed heads up so he could invite his doctor friends.
“We got there then his friends started arriving, an hour later one asked if I could leave because they wanted to discuss work stuff and it’s confidential.
“I was so shocked I laughed asking why he thought it was appropriate to discuss work during a party and he replied that I had an ‘attitude’.”
She continued: “An argument ensued and they ‘demanded’ that I leave but I said absolutely not. My boyfriend finally spoke up after it escalated and asked that I keep the peace and go home but I refused.
“I reminded him and let his friends know that I’d arranged for this party and paid for it and so they should leave since they’re just ‘guests’.
“He pulled me aside and begged I go home after they said if I don’t leave then they will but I still refused.
“They left, all of them and the party was cut short. My boyfriend was upset and started complaining at home that I ruined his B-day the minute I started arguing with his friends.”
“I told him they were being disrespectful to me but he said I was wrong too cause they said they wanted to discuss medical stuff and I should’ve respected that and not made it ‘personal’,” she added.
Reddit users were quick to give advice, with one writing: “When someone shows you who they are, believe them. He chose his ‘friends’ although you arranged everything. Asking you to leave was incredibly rude – and that is without you hosting. You deserve someone who treats you better.”
Another wrote: “Use that red flag as a cape and fly away.”
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