A 29-year-old man has shared how she ghosted his girlfriend after she put him through a ‘commitment test’ as she wanted to see how he would react to a certain situation.
Posting on Reddit, he explained that he and his girlfriend had been together for a few months. Everything seemed to be going well until he received a phone call in the middle of the night.
“She called me late at night to say that she’s seriously injured/having panic attacks and that no one else is with her as her parents are out, which was true, they were out,” he wrote.
The man continued: “She said that she’s also got some chest pain and she thinks that she’s dying and that she’s in a really bad state and can hardly breathe.”
Worried about his girlfriend, he rushed to his car and frantically searched for her inside her house.
“It was only after reaching her that I found out that she was joking about it. She met me joyfully and said that she only wanted to see how ‘committed’ I am during an emergency as that’s an essential part of a relationship or something,” he continued.
He said that he lost his temper but his girlfriend explained that she was just ‘testing’ him.
“I called her a f***** b***h and told her that I did not deserve to be treated like trash and made use of like that,” he continued, adding that he stopped talking to her and ghosted her.
Wondering if he was over reacting, he shared his story on Reddit. One person commented: “Run! She intentionally put you in a state, causing you to drive in that state of panic, which is a recipe for disaster. An accident waiting to happen.”
Another said: “She is not a good fit. You did, indeed, ‘prove’ you’re a good boyfriend… Hopefully you see her ‘test’ as the bright waving red flag everyone else here sees.”
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