A woman has shared how her boyfriend makes her pay for everything because he is saving up for their apartment.
The 26-year-old woman took to Reddit and explained that they have been together for three years. They have equally paying jobs but her boyfriend doesn’t want to pay when they eat outside.
He also refuses to buy furniture and groceries and doesn’t pay for any fixes in their rental flat.
“I tried to have conversations about how I’m always supposed to foot the bill for almost everything. His excuse is that he’s been saving for a new apartment (been saving up for 2 years now),” the woman wrote.
She also said that her boyfriend happily spends his money on video games and gadgets but doesn’t want to spend anything for her.
But one incident made the woman lose her temper with him. She wrote: “Days ago, he called me and asked that I take him to the hospital to treat his ankle. It’s been hurting him for weeks but only now he decided to get it checked.”
“I drove him there since he was in pain, but was surprised when he told me to pay the bill. I asked why not him and he brought up the new apartment he’s been saving for again,” she went on.
He also threatened to not include her name to the title of the new apartment if se refused to pay for the bill.
“I snapped and told him to pay for himself and stop using my money with the apartment excuse then I left.”
People on Reddit were quick to show their support for the woman, with one writing: “He is just using you and your money and probably plans to dump you once he buys the ‘apartment.’”
Another wrote: “You are being used. 100% when he has enough money for the apartment, he dumps you. Stop footing the bill. Leave him.”
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