Planning for an event such as a wedding can be awfully daunting and if you fail to agree, then this next post is for you.
One woman is shedding light on how her husband’s side of the family is adding plenty of unwanted stress to her life. And that includes saying hello to some major decisions that she’s not keen on accepting.
Think along the lines of a wedding that includes sharing your big day with your mother-in-law. Yes, the latter would be tying the knot too and this bride says she certainly did not sign up for this package. Now, she is claiming that the stress is bugging her and it’s ruining relations and the fun that comes with wedding planning.
Moreover, she’s getting upset at her husband for feeling this behavior is all right when it’s simply not. “This is the biggest night of my life. How or why does this man feel it’s fine for us to get married, right next to his mother who is tying the knot for the second time, she exclaimed.
Therefore, she’s not getting expert advice on the subject and people are having their say.
The Reddit platform where the story was shared had plenty of individuals talking. Some spoke about how it was a major red flag while others shed light on some of their own stories, including the great many sacrifices that married life comes with.
But this bride says she’s got zero tolerance and intentions of tying the knot on the same day as her mother-in-law. “Who does this? It’s like stealing the spotlight away from her”- another person continued.
One netizen wrote that this was a true test of the groom. And if he really does love her, he’ll ask her for permission, and if she says yes, only then will he go ahead with the plan. What do you think?
I think MAMA should elope. Her BABY BOY by this time should be man enough to back his future wife. If that is not the case, he’s no big catch. Send him back to MAMA, and start looking elsewhere. A relationship like that can only lead to heart ache and misery.
You must go into marriage with both eyes open and if there is ANYTHING that you don’t agree with, don’t get married
Ha!!! My future MIL (first marriage) was a travel agent and thought it would be fun to book herself on the same cruise as my husband and I we’re going on for our honeymoon! It was only a few weeks before the wedding when we found out about her plans. I put my foot down immediately! She tried to challenged and manipulate the situation every which way she could. But I made my intentions loud and clear. Needless to say, her cruise was rescheduled for the month following our cruise. And the wedding went forward as planned.