One dating coach has started a mega online debate on how men must always pay for dinner on the first date.
But that’s not the only piece of news that had many in absolute awe! Yes, the woman went on to conclude how men who fail to get the cheque are usually repulsive or probably broke, and for that reason, women must steer clear of them all.
Surprisingly, the woman is a ‘self-professed’ coach in the world of dating and she’s not taking any more nonsense regarding the idea of how each person should pay their ‘share.’
Sharing her views via a recent TikTok video, the woman who goes by the name @ask.nelly responded to a video where a man referred to women as being ‘entitled’ for holding the opinion that men must pay for every single thing.
As a part of her fuming response, the dating coach was quick to repeat how it’s unbelievably repulsive to see men speak like that. “Let me provide you all with a little refresher regarding how dating really works in today’s world because clearly, some need it more than others,” she boldly stated.
“If a man is taking a woman out for a date, he is definitely romantically interested in her and if he is not picking up the bill, it has nothing to do with her being entitled.point 261 |
Instead, it has to do with how he’s not chivalrous, or he’s not a true gentleman.point 78 | Secondly, he’s a cheapskate, number three, he can’t afford it, number four, he just doesn’t respect women enough!” Yikes- how’s that for a bitter debate?point 237 | 1
But wait, there was a number five as well where the dating coach stated that such behavior takes place when a man clearly doesn’t value the woman or refuses to see her as a prized possession.
In the end, the coach cautioned other females to search for men who showed a level of interest through the efforts that they put forward, and paying for food was a clear signal of just that.