One couple is making heads turn after revealing they are intrigued about having a life without children.
The couple says they’re very much in life but the thought of zero babies is worrying their loved ones, more than themselves.
While having children might be a dream, goal, or milestone for some people- others don’t look at it in the same context. And this couple just might be a part of those.
Sources from local media outlets claim Heraldo and his lover are so over the normal stereotypical behavior of others. They are just no longer interested in listening to the advice that others provide them with. And being so young, they’ve taken some drastic measures.
Having a vasectomy at the age of 34 meant saying goodbye to having children and their family members are not happy. The couple says they’re tired of living a life that is to please others.
Now, it’s all about taking trips, long naps, and celebrating something that means so much to them. And so far, they’ve got no regrets and hope they will never go down the route.
This couple who now lives in Sydney, Australia says they’re madly in love with one another and have been in a relationship for five years.
They’ve traveled the world and adore working out together and seeing things that they’ve never seen and going to places that they’ve never been to before. And one passion that they share is to live a life that’s child-free.
Being super spontaneous and selfish might sound like a task for some but they’re in their element and there’s no place they’d rather be than each other’s side.
“We’re a couple that just wants to grow old together and not be bothered by anyone. Is that a lot to ask?”- the couple explained.
Good for you!!! Not everyone has to have children.
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That’s your choice no one else’s. Children are not for everyone, I have no idea why families get so upset about two adults choosing their path in life. Be happy for them.
I have no judgement..each to their own…I have family who feel the same and don’t have children…but …you know things do change..a vasectomy is a big call..what if your wife who you love do much changes her mind ? What if one day travelling, money, sleep ins just isn’t doing it any more…what then ?
Then you get the vasectomy reversed…
Reversals don’t always work, so could be tricky.
I am the lucky one who Married a man who had a vasectomy before we met…It was reversed…I had 3 children…sadly, Phill Donahue and Marlo Thomas did not have the same luck…
I had an aunt tell me it was “selfish” to not want children. Well, 1) she was a horrible person 2) I never liked that old biddy 3) I think it’s selfish TO want children. Bringing another person into an already overcrowded world? Our world is going to be very different very soon. 4) Think having kids will secure your old age? Nope. I’ve seen too many lonely women and men in retirement home with children and nobody comes to see them. 5) The ego wanting another little “you” is absurd. 6) Not everyone is parent material. There are millions of kids stuck in foster care.
This is just the beginning but I’ll stop now.
I don’t believe the correct word is selfish…I believe the word is self-aware. What would be selfish is to have a child then exclude or expect someone else to take on the parental role when you two wanted to adventure. I have three children. One has told me unequivocally that unless a MAJOR change occurs her children will be four-legged and furry. She is my only biological child and guess what, it’s her life and I am ok with her choices as long as she is happy. I have grandchildren from my other two and they are happy with their decision…go you!
I never wanted kids .my husband was OK about that I had a great life traveling seeing so much did so many things .I never regradet it .so it’s there chioce there life .Good 4 them .be happy enjoy ever moment….life is so short do it .
Honestly, people stop the judgements comment. I have two young adults, bringing up a children in this age and time, will be a no no from me. No one knows what the future holds for your children especially with the current crisis and situations facing the world.
Wowwwww
It’s their choice have a happy life.
You do you, because children are special and you would not appreciate them long term. It is good you realize you are not suited to be parents.
We had six and they are terrific adults. It was not easy, but we wanted them and knew what we would ‘miss’. No regrets.
I would have loved to be a Gramma but my two children grown up now, didn’t want baby’s (,boy girl) they have a happy life and that’s all that matters
My daughter told me when she was 16 that she didn’t want children. Nearly 20 years later that has not changed. As much as I would love to have grandchildren, it’s not my choice. I raised my children to be strong and independent. I have to respect their choices and be grateful they are happy and healthy.
WOW he’s getting the snip why not both of them if neither wants children and lets be honest here who’s to say they will stay together ! he will live to regret doing it later on if he was to meet someone else in the future and they wanted children I have seen this a couple of times when the man gets done and has regretted it after marrying his second wife and both were desperate for a baby and the reversal did not work.
Children are not for everyone!! So enjoy one another, take trips, long naps and be happy. Life is short never worry about what other people think. You will definitely never satisfy other people and most of all family (who by the way are the worst). Live Love Happiness is the key to a beautiful life!!!! Congratulations