A balanced marriage might seem to be ideal to some but it’s definitely not easy to work things out when you make a mistake that some might find to be difficult to rectify.

One woman says she was mortified to learn how her husband went behind her back to literally lend their hard-earned savings, without first discussing the matter with her.

The woman started to explain her rant on the popular platform of Reddit. That’s where she happened to go into more detail on the subject of how devastated and upset she was with her man.

She felt that the pair had a wonderful bond and could discuss anything. But the fact that he found it alright to never tell until the deal was done was just heartbreaking for her. “We are supposed to trust one another. He did not do that, and now I refuse to talk to him”- she added.

 

The couple had reportedly been saving up each penny for a better life in the future. This meant giving their family something great like a good education and whatnot.

“This was our life’s earnings. How can this be alright, instead of apologizing, he is justifying his rude actions and that is just making things worse”- the wife added.

The husband says that life is just too short and the fact that his lifelong friend was in dire need of some extra cash left him with no choice but to help him out.

His friend has vowed to pay back every single penny, but he has not provided any timeframe as to when he will be doing that, the wife continued to explain.

Therefore, now she is turning to netizens to have their say on the subject and how this ordeal has really taken a toll on her marriage. Hence, she wants to know that what her husband did was inexcusable and therefore how should she go about the situation with him now, after everything that has taken place.