They say love is blind and sometimes you fall head over heels for someone in such a manner that you follow your heart but forget to take your brain with you.

This next story is proof of just that and more. One man says that he may love his wife and kids but his heart is stuck on this one woman that he laid his eyes on at his child’s school.

He finds her super attractive in all ways and can’t seem to get her off of his mind. It’s gone to such an extent that he can’t focus on his own work and family and feels that might put his own marriage at stake.

Speaking to members on Reddit, the man is now asking for advice on what he should do and how he can make things like this better because the last thing anyone wants is an upset wife.

He even went on to detail how she was a very adventurous personality and that was right up his alley. Seeing him taking out more and more similarities between the two had people at a standstill.

They felt the duo just might end up hooking up and that would be an even bigger disaster because let’s face it, extra-marital affairs are never fun and they can be brutal sometimes.

What was harrowing is how she had the guts next to inform his wife. And shockingly, she was very calm and reassuring.

The idea of being in an open relationship did not bother her and today, the trio is actually together, as bizarre as it may sound.

What are your thoughts on an open relationship? Do you think accepting a third member in a couple is a smart idea or not? Let us know and be sure to SHARE the story with others too!