You may have come across plenty of stories related to selfish parents but this next one is on a whole new level altogether.
A woman is taking the world by storm by speaking about how her dream lover is keen on her giving up her child, whom she shares with another man, up for adoption.
The single mom says she is tired of living a life that’s filled with nothing but pain and struggles. She had a child with a man that left her for someone else.
And he never turned back to return and ask how she or the baby was. Today, her child is 3 in age and she’s proud of the fact that she’s managed to raise her singlehandedly. But wait, the twist came soon when she met another man that she has fallen head over heels for.
Detailing more about her story, the woman adds how she met her dream man a few months back, and when she got to know him more and more, each fell harder for him each day. And now, she claims to be deeply in love with no turning back.
She added how the man has everything that she’s ever wanted in a man and people like him are hard to find in today’s time.
But then all of a sudden, she got a reality check when he told her that he couldn’t accept her child. He felt that the responsibility of raising someone else’s child was too much.
Therefore, he suggested that she gives the baby up for adoption. And now, the mother of one is speaking about how she’s giving that thought because she does not wish to lose her dream man and would sacrifice her baby for it.
People are baffled by this young woman and how quickly she can give up a baby for a complete stranger and how there’s no guarantee that he would be spending his whole life with her by her side.
Others spoke about how this behavior was a clear red sign and it was better she move on than listen to his bizarre demands. What do you think?
DUMP HIM , if you don’t you’ll be controlled, RED LIGHTS ARE FLASHING ALREADY. he’ll be telling who you can see ie== family /friends. what you wear/ where you go . your daughter only has you.
If he can’t except your child,he’s not worth having x
My response to this is: love me, love my dog. The package comes together.
Not much of a dream man if he can’t accept a child
Absolutely disgusting .how you can ever consider giving your baby up . There is no man on this earth worth giving your beautiful baby up for .. you need to get your head sorted out …
If he really loved you he would love your child no matter what and would never ask you to choose him over your child. He’s a selfish narcissist and would only hurt you in the long run.
I’m raising 3 of my grandkids now because their mom (my daughter) can’t & wont leave their father who’s abusive. I find it very STUPID that there’s even a question as to what you should do. That’s your child and who’s to say if he can’t stay for her and treat her as his own since her dads not in the picture he won’t make you abort or adopt out another child that may come from this relationship? Although I’m grateful she’s not trying to kill her own child and adopt her out instead this is just STUPID! This is what came of our society and guess what it’ll get worse if people are not held accountable for their actions! TOTAL BS
I was shocked and horrified by this. I was divorced with a son that is ADHD and dyslexic. Through the church I started to attend, I met my hubby of 40+ years. My son was 4 when we met and 6 when we married. He is now our carer part time as well as working. This man needs a good kick were it will hurt the most. If he can demand this, what will happen if she becomes pregnant to him. Will he decide then that he doesn’t want the responsability? She needs to get rid at once Biggest red flag I have ever seen
This man, is no man. He’s a whimp and if you decide to make this decision then you deserve all that you get. I have no sympathy for you.🤬
The fact you are even considering it says you two deserve each other! Baby would have two losers for parents.
My guess is that you would be wanting your baby back sooner than later. Don’t make a mistake that you may end up regretting.
I cannot believe that you could even start thinking a bout doing that. He’s a dream man alright and he needs to wake up and so do you. Neither of you deserve this beautiful young child maybe she would be better off with a newloving family who would put her first in their lives. Selfish selfish selfish!
Poor child. She needs a mother who puts her first. I cannot imagine doing that!
I was divorced by the time my daughter was 4. I became very protective of her. Didn’t bring any man around her until I saw sure i could trust him. And i told him this was a package deal here if you can’t except her then you can’t expect me to except you. So move on. How could any mother give up her child for a man?
My guess is that you will want your baby back sooner than later. Please don’t make a mistake that you may end up regretting.
Wow,
This sorry excuse for a mother should have her child taken away and she should not be allowed to have any more children. Dream guy? More like a nightmare, and sorry excuse for a man. The two of them are pieces of crap. They deserve each other. Shame on this woman! What scum!
Horrible mother. Poor little baby girl. Any man that would ask that of a woman is no f—— good.
Maybe they deserve each other 😡🤬
I had a 3 year old son when I met my husband 50 years ago. We spent 4 years getting to know one another and our children (he had 2 as well). We decided we loved each other and our children and got married. He never considered me to be “damaged” because I had a child and I never thought this of him. We had a wonderful marriage and now have 8 grandchildren, 7, soon to be 8, great grandchildren. He passed away 14 years ago and I miss him every single day. This is the type of man you need, not one who cannot accept your beautiful little girl. Wait for a real man to come along. They do exist and he isn’t it.
For one, you are a package deal. There is no thinking about it. Sounds to me he is a selfish man and has no heart, for he knew you had a child to begin with, did he not. With you thinking about it, tells me there is no true love you have for your daughter. If you really love her there is nothing or anyone would ever come between you and her. Point blank.
To even be thinking to give up your child like that is no mother you should be ashamed of your self. As for that other thing you say your in love with is no man. There is plenty of people that would treat your daughter as their own. If they loved and respected you they would love her to
Why would you even think of giving your child up to your family for a man who is already controlling your emotions. As a mother your daughter should come first no matter what this guy is making you feel, he does not love you he just want to posses you with no attach.
I cannot understand that you even thought of giving away your beautiful daughter for a man that will never accept her as being apart of you. I was a mum with 2 boys my my husband left me then I met someone and he accepted my boys and help me bringing them up now they are parents themselves.
This is a shocking true story. Any man or woman that cannot accept your child as he or she loves you is not a good person to settle down with. Please let the guy go. You don’t need someone like that in your life.
I tell him to take his mad ass and F#$k off for good, no way would I ever consider doing that to a child i would remove him for the situation ASAP …Asshole!!