After giving birth to a stillborn baby, Rachel Whalen was devastated and heartbroken.
While some people did their best to avoid her in order not to have to deal with the unpleasant topic of her child’s death, there were also friends and family members who supported her with hugs and kisses.
As the brave mother revealed, however, pity that she received from her closest allies wasn’t enough to fill up the void inside her.
Now, the mother spoke out about the ‘uncomfortable’ topic and explained how the nurses saved her by providing her with hope in her darkest moments.
In a tribute letter to the ‘angels’ who helped her through the ordeal which she shared on a Facebook page called An Unexpected Family Outing, Rachel wrote:
“To the nurses, Thank you for saving me. Your skills and your knowledge saved me from following my daughter into death, but it was your compassion that guided me back towards life.
“The humanity you demonstrated is what brought me back into life; you made it possible to think about living after death. For this, I owe you my love and deepest gratitude.
“Thank you to the nurses who always made sure my husband had enough pillows when he had to stay in my hospital room. And thank you to the nurses who let him sneak popsicles from the freezer.
You recognized that this was an experience for him and that he also needed your care.”
“Thank you to the nurse who came with me when they rushed me to the ICU from Labor & Delivery. Thank you for being my advocate when I couldn’t speak up because I was too busy fighting for my life.
I’m not sure I would have lived to see my daughter if you hadn’t been there.
“Thank you to the nurse who taught me how to fill my bra with ice packs when I needed to suppress my milk after my daughter was stillborn. I also want to thank you for holding me as I wept at the burden I could not release. Your embrace did nothing to lighten the heaviness in my breasts, but you brought a glimmer of light into my very dark world.
“Thank you to the nurse in the ICU who came in to clean me up after my daughter died. Thank you for taking the time to help me wash my face and brush my hair. I can still sense how it felt to have you smooth my hair back into a ponytail, it was a touch that wasn’t a poke or a prod. It was a gesture.
“Thank you to the nurse who crouched by my bedside and asked me about Dorothy. Thank you for knowing how important it was for her to be real even though she was gone. I will never forget the way you learned in, just like we were friends, and asked: ‘Do you want to tell me about her?’
“Thank you to the nurse who dressed my baby and took her picture. Thank you for making sure her hat didn’t cover her eyes and that her hands were positioned so gracefully. That picture means the world to us.
“Thank you to the nurses who took the time to read my chart before shift change. I want to thank you for learning our names and learning the name of our daughter before you walked into my room. It meant so much to hear our names spoken together. It made us feel like a family.
“Thank you to the nurse who slipped quietly into my room on my first night without Dorothy so that you could hold my hand.
Thank you for whispering to me your story about your own child who was born still. Thank you for being the first person to lead me out of the isolation one feels after losing a child. Your presence felt too good to be true.
I’m still not convinced I didn’t dream you up just, so I could make it through that first lonely night.
“Finally, I want to thank the nurses who saw me through my pregnancy with Dorothy’s little sister. Even after Frances came into the world, you never forgot that someone came before her. You knew that the birth of Frances did not make me a first-time mother. It made me a mother of two.”
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