A girl has spoken out about an unpleasant experience involving a man who sent her a list of brutal ‘tips’ for improvement months after she went on a date with him.
24-year-old Kimberley Latham-Hawkesford from Morecambe, UK, was in for a surprise after her Tinder date sent her his list of ideas on how she could improve their date.
The list of 15 awful pointers followed three months after Kimberley went on a one-time date with the prick.
According to the 24-year-old, the date was perfect until the man began asking her if she could undergo plastic surgeries and shop at specific stores for specific clothes before going out on a date with him again.
As Kimberley added, her date took another blow after she offered to pay for the meal. Allegedly, the man got upset and went on to brag about his finances and show her his bank balance on his phone.
Thinking that she finally got rid of the self-absorbed man following their first and last date, Kimberley received a shocking message from the narcissist three months after their date.
His list of tips read:
“Hello Kimberley, I know we went on a date quite a while ago now but I’d like to explain why I haven’t messaged you. I feel like you could have made the date much better, here are a few reasons why. I apologize if I offend you.
“If you lost some weight you would look incredible. Maybe a stone or so.
“You are very pale. I know you aren’t a fan of the sun but a bit of fake tan wouldn’t hurt.
“You have quite big boobs so you should show off your cleavage more.
“I think you need to wear clothes that suit your figure and maybe update your style slightly. Just so I’m not embarrassed to be seen with you.
“You need to dye your hair a normal color and add extensions. Longer hair is much more attractive.
“You need to look more natural, stop wearing makeup. Just make yourself look decent but don’t overkill it.
“Your lips have gone down so you should think of getting more filler. I know you said you regretted it but filler would make you sexier.
“You need so much more confidence, confidence is sexy!
“The fact you take things slow makes you look like a prude. I didn’t get a kiss which messed with my ego. Be more sensitive to others’ feelings.
“When we got food, I know you got a salad but having full-fat coke is more calories you don’t need.
“You need to keep your past to a minimum. I don’t care about it and what you went through.
“Get a sense of humor, you didn’t laugh at a single one of my jokes.
“You just seemed a bit stuck up. Sort your personality out.
“You made me feel shit when you offered to pay. It’s like you thought I didn’t have enough money after telling you how much is in my account.
“You didn’t compliment me once.”
As if all of this wasn’t evil enough, the arrogant man finished off his message by suggesting Kimberley improve if she wanted another chance with him.
“If you take these on board I might consider another date. I will give you a month and get back in touch to see if this made a difference. Good day to you Kimberly,” he wrote, spelling her name wrong.
Fortunately, the 24-year-old didn’t take his tips too seriously and told him to get lost.
“At first I was absolutely mortified and it killed my confidence, but the more I read it the funnier it became. I couldn’t understand how a guy could say such things to a woman,” she said. “My only tip for him is to respect women as his behavior is disgusting.”
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