I had a perfect life. Three adorable kids, a successful and loving husband who was CEO at work and the perfect father at home, a big bungalow to live in and every happiness in life a woman wishes for.
I had no limit on money either, we had more then we needed. But this did not keep going on for long after we grew a little old.
I had a marriage of 20 years. Yes, that is a lot of time, but since last three years, our fights and arguments had increased so much that one day my husband told me that he is leaving me forever and he won’t come back.
I was in a chronic depression at that time and my anxieties were in no control. I felt like my world was over. In our relationship, he was the in charge of financial management and I had no idea about what and how much expenditure we had.
When we split, he gave me the passwords to our joint account and that is the first time I operated the account. I opened my account on the computer and I had no idea I would find something like this.
I found that a transaction of a huge amount was made to a website called seekingarrangement.com.
I google what it was and I found out that my husband is a sugar daddy. He pays for young girls for sex and companionship. The money was not his, it was ours and he had spent thousands of dollars on such women.
That was the last day I had spent relaying on him. I called him and screamed about the same. Then I separated my paths. Bought a house first, found a job, created my own separate bank account and transferred all my money there. I made a business plan and started to live alone.
At first, I was a little scared as I have never been alone since I was in my 20’s but gradually I learned everything. I was enjoying it now.
Managing my own budget, fixing the leaking taps on my own, taking yoga classes at the school as my job, making money for myself. Just everything was perfect. I was overwhelmed most of the time with the life I was living.
I don’t feel like I am alone anymore or that I need any support in life. I am happy and completely able to do everything.
This is my story of how I found myself after a 20 years long marriage that failed to make me complete so I stood up for my self and completed me.
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