The subreddit ‘Am I The A**hole‘ describes itself as a “catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us and finds the right place to discuss inner thoughts if you were wrong in an argument that’s been bothering you.” With 1.2 million followers it has become an active and fascinating place for discussing ethical dilemmas of all kinds.
This particular scenario is difficult for a guy who has to choose between hurting his beloved brother’s feelings or potentially ruining his wedding – something that means the world to his fiancee.
The OP wants the best for all and is trying to avoid hurting anybody. In the end, he made his choice based on what would cause the least damage, but he’s still unsure and asked if he did the right thing?
“Am I the a**hole here?”
It seems that there is a strong consensus that the OP did the right thing here, and there are more appropriate times for brother to make his announcement.
What do you think? Did OP do the right thing here? Scroll down to read the discussion below and let us know your thoughts in the comments!
Here’s how people reacted to the dilemma.