You share the strongest bond with your family.
Whether yours is family by blood or family by choice. You always expect love and support from your family, you never expect to get hurt. But, sometimes it is family members who hurt us and become too toxic to handle.
This is the time when you need to break bonds with them.
We share 5 situations where breaking ties with toxic relatives is absolutely fine.
1. They gossip about you.
We share our most secrets with our family, or sometimes expect a good piece of advice or simply sharing our joys. However, if your family members spread the secret that you shared only with them will hurt you. You shared something with trust, so no one has the right to spread the information of your personal life outside the home.
2. They judge you.
If someone says something for your betterment, it is good. Healthy criticism is a good thing, it helps us to understand our mistakes, so we can correct them. If the criticism that they repeat often and if it hurts your sentiments, or destroys your confidence, it’s high time you terminated these toxic people from your life.
3. They come to you only when they need something.
A toxic family member comes to you when they can gain from you. Once their need is fulfilled, they will quickly disappear from your life. When you need their help? They will give you thousands of excuses about why they can’t do things.
4. They manipulate you.
You feel free and happy in a healthy relationship, there is no burden. If you keep feeling guilty, stressed, and judged, you don’t need those relationships at all? Manipulators always try to control you, your life, and your attention, no matter what they have to do.
5. They keep reminding you of your past.
They keep reminding your mistakes that you made in your young life, which you might want to forget. A person may feel painful, but those family members who keep doing it even after you asked them not to, are not acceptable.
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